If you are thinking of breaking up with your partner, you must have a good reason to do so. Do some thinking and reflecting on the reasons and repercussions of breaking up before you sever your relationship with your lover. Here are the questions you should be asking yourself before breaking up with your partner.
1. Ask yourself if you have taken this decision in a hurry
Irrespective of your reason to breakup, one of the critical questions to ask yourself before doing so is to check whether you are breaking up in a hurry. Have you taken a decision without thinking? Are you basing such an important decision on a mere gut feeling? Are you acting in haste? If your answer to these questions is yes, you may want to rethink your decision of breaking up.
2. Ask yourself if you have decided to breakup because you are bored
Sometimes couples are known to get bored in relationships if they have been together for a long time. But getting bored of each other should not be your reason for breaking up. Every relationship goes through highs and lows. If you are breaking up only because nothing exciting is happening in your relationship, you may want to ask yourself some serious questions.
3. Ask yourself about the repercussions of your breakup
One of the first things that should enter your mind before thinking about a split is the repercussion. What impact will the breakup have on your boyfriend’s life? If you know each other’s families, how will you explain the breakup to them? What will you do with all the plans for the future you made with your boyfriend? Breaking up in a jiffy may be easy, bearing the repercussions definitely isn’t.
4. Ask yourself if you can forgive your partner or ask for forgiveness for one last time
Any emotionally hurtful act could lead to a breakup. You need to think whether you can ask for forgiveness from your boyfriend or forgive him for one last time, depending on where you stand in the relationship. Sometimes putting effort till the very end may flip the situation around completely and work like a miracle. Ask yourself if you have done everything it takes to save your relationship.
5. Ask yourself about the factors influencing your decision to breakup
You may be angry with your boyfriend or unhappy in your relationship, but can you pin point a good enough reason for breaking up? Breaking up is a big thing and you must have a worthy reason to do so. Ask yourself if other external factors are influencing your decisions and think about how you can deal with them in a better way.
6. Ask yourself if you can live without your partner after the breakup
When you feel like breaking up, you may not have the clarity to see how much you love your boyfriend. Ask yourself if you will be able to live without your partner’s love, affection, help, companionship and humor. Instead of falling into the complicated hassle of patching up after a torrid breakup, why not think about the matter in the first place?
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